VOTRE FAMILLE PEUT-ELLE ETRE FIERE ET CONTENTE DE VOUS?

Bonjour.

Nous voulons commencer le message d’aujourd’hui, en vous posant cette petite question : 

Pourquoi est-ce que c’est si difficile d’avoir de nos jours une famille unie et solidaire ?

Je vous invite à réfléchir un instant sur la situation de votre propre famille, et de répondre à cette question au fond de votre coeur.

Pouvez-vous dire sincèrement que vous êtes une famille solidement unie et solidaire ?

Si c’est le cas, eh bien nous glorifions le seigneur. 

Mais dans la plupart de cas, l’expérience nous a appris que les familles ont toujours de problèmes en leur sein. Et parfois des gros problèmes, qui empêchent à ce que les gens parlent le même langage ; se soutiennent mutuellement ; travaillent main dans la main ou, qu’ils s’engagent tous dans un combat en vue de terrasser un ennemi commun comme la pauvreté, la précarité, les blocages dans la vie, et autres fléaux qui détruisent ou freinent la vie des membres de la famille.

Maintenant, réfléchissez un moment à ce qui suit :

Pensez-vous que c’est un hasard si Dieu a voulu que l’homme puisse avoir une famille ?

S’il était vraiment bon pour une personne de vivre seul, pourquoi alors Dieu ne s’est-il pas limité à créer une seule personne ?

Vous voyez bien aimé, dans Genèse chapitre 2 verset 18, la bible dit qu’après que Dieu ait créé Adam, il fit un constat en disant : "Il n’est pas bon que l’homme soit seul".

Prenez un instant pour réfléchir à cette déclaration.

Si votre créateur qui connait bien comment vous fonctionnez, vous en tant que sa créature, dit qu’il n’est pas bon pour vous en tant qu’humain de vivre seul ; pensez-vous que vous serez capable de lui prouver le contraire ?

Pourquoi voulez-vous alors vous isoler de votre famille, ou vous retirer dans votre coin ?

A qui est-ce que profite selon vous, le fait pour une famille d’être dysfonctionnelle, désunie et remplie des problèmes ?

A qui est-ce que profite le fait que votre famille soit rongée par des problèmes, des divisions, des querelles interminables, des haines, des jalousies, ou des rancunes ?

Pourquoi ne pouvez-vous pas comprendre que ce n’est pas un hasard, si Dieu a voulu que vous formiez une famille ensemble avec ces gens contre qui vous êtes en opposition aujourd’hui ?

Croyez-vous que Dieu pourrait être vraiment fier de vous, en voyant la manière dont vous vivez, vous qu’il a pourtant rassemblé à travers le lien du sang ? 

Ne dit-on pas que l’union fait la force ?

Pouvez-vous alors imaginer le sort qui sera réservée à votre famille, à partir du moment où elle choisit d’être divisée ?

Vous voyez, dans Ecclésiaste 4 :12, la bible dit que "si quelqu’un est plus fort qu’un seul, les deux peuvent lui résister ; et la corde à trois fils ne se rompt pas facilement".

Pourquoi ne pourriez-vous pas alors former une corde à plusieurs fils, dans le cadre de votre famille, afin de pouvoir ainsi devenir encore plus forts, et plus difficiles à couper ?

Quel est ce mal que les gens de votre famille peuvent vous avoir fait subir, pour que vous décidiez de vous éloigner de votre famille, et de vous isoler tout seul de votre côté ?

Croyez-vous avoir subi plus d'injustice et de mauvais traitements au sein de votre famille, comparables à ce que Joseph avait subi de la part de ses frères ?

Vous voyez ; Joseph a failli être tué par ses frères. Ils l’ont d’abord jeté dans un trou profond puis, ils l’ont retiré de là, et l’ont vendu comme un esclave auprès des trafiquants égyptiens.

Ce n’est pas comme si c’était juste une histoire qu’on était en train de raconter à Joseph mais plutôt, un fait réel, auquel Joseph lui-même a participé.

Il a affronté en face la méchanceté de ses frères. Il les a vus et entendus négocier avec les Égyptiens le prix auquel ils devraient le vendre.

Joseph a vu ses frères se faire remettre de l’argent, comme prix d’achat de la personne qu’il était (Lire l’histoire dans Genèse 37, dans la bible).

Il a probablement supplié ses frères à maintes reprises, pour qu’ils l’épargnent du mauvais sort qu’ils entendaient lui réserver mais, ses frères l’ont quand-même vendu.

Pourtant, le jour où Joseph fut élevé en dignité en Egypte, il se souvint quand-même de sa famille, et pris soins de ces mêmes frères qui l’avaient vendu.

Joseph décida donc de répondre au mal par le bien, comme nous le recommande la bible, notamment en Romains 12 :21.

Pourquoi ne pouvez-vous pas aussi faire preuve de grandeur d’esprit comme Joseph, et de rester attaché à votre famille, quel que soit ce qui s’est passé ?

Avez-vous subi une injustice qui soit plus grande que celle que Joseph avait subie ?

Allez-vous couper le lien du sang qui vous unit aux gens de votre famille, à cause de ce qui est arrivé ?

Ne comprenez-vous pas que c’est à vous-même que vous vous nuisez, en voulant vous écarter de votre famille ou en voulant travailler contre ses intérêts ?

Comment espérez-vous pouvoir progresser dans la vie, quand vous vivez en tension contre les gens qui sont censés constituer votre premier secours et votre première ligne de défense en cas de danger ?

Vous n’êtes pas plutôt censés travailler pour promouvoir votre famille, l’aider à se développer, et veiller au bien-être de chacun de ses membres ?

N’avez-vous pas honte de vous comporter en traitre par rapport à votre famille ?

Comment pourriez-vous vous retrouver en train de vouloir détruire ceux-là même que vous êtes censé protéger ?

Comment pourriez-vous être fier de vous retrouver en train d’affamer et d’appauvrir ceux-là même que vous êtes censé nourrir, enrichir et protéger ?

Comment pouvez-vous vous retrouver en train de vendre votre famille par-ci et par-là, avec des médisances, des critiques malsaines, et des déclarations mensongères, et être fier de vous ?

N’avez-vous pas vraiment honte d’être le traitre des gens que vous êtes censé aimer et protéger ?

Pourquoi ne pouvez-vous pas simplement être une bonne personne pour les gens de votre famille ? Que ce soit votre famille biologique, votre famille professionnelle, ou votre famille spirituelle ? 

Les gens ne sont-ils pas censés être heureux de vous avoir, et de devoir compter sur vous ? 

Vous voyez, en parlant de Jésus Christ, la bible dit que sa naissance était destinée à amener la chute des uns, et le relèvement de plusieurs.

C’est Siméon qui fit cette déclaration, le jour où l’enfant Jésus Christ avait été présenté devant lui (Lire Luc chapitre 4, verset 34. C'est dans la bible).

En réalité, c’est censé être toujours ainsi pour chaque personne qui vient à naître dans ce monde.

Notre naissance est censée amener le relèvement de plusieurs c’est-à-dire, amener un plus dans la vie de plusieurs. Et principalement, dans la vie des gens de notre famille. 

C’est d’ailleurs la principale raison pour laquelle les gens sont très contents, et font la fête, quand nous naissons. Et pleurent amèrement, les jours où nous mourrons. C’est surtout les gens de notre famille qui ressentent le plus cette joie ou cette angoisse.

En fait, le jour où nous sommes nés, les gens de notre famille se sont mis à se réjouir énormément, parce qu’il se disaient au-dedans d’eux, qu’un nouveau héros venait de s’ajouter dans la famille. Quelqu’un sur qui ils pouvaient désormais compter quand ils auraient des besoins quelconques dans leur vie.

Mais est-ce toujours le cas ?

arrivons-nous toujours à répondre positivement, face aux espoirs que les gens de notre famille ont placés en nous le jour où nous sommes venus au monde?

Arrivons-nous toujours à rendre nos proches heureux, comme ils voudraient que ce soit le cas ?

Ne sommes-nous pas, pour la plupart d’entre nous, de vraies déceptions pour les gens de notre famille ?

Réveillez-vous bien aimés dans le seigneur, 

La famille est la première institution créée par Dieu. Elle a existé avant toutes les autres institutions que nous connaissons, et toutes les institutions s'y sont inspirés.

Cependant la stratégie actuelle du diable est de la détruire à n'importe quel prix. Raison pour laquelle, plusieurs doctrines se sont installées dans les corps du Christ, en opposition aux valeurs de cette institution sacrée.

Au lieu de considérer la famille comme une force, le diable fait à ce que nous la considérions aujourd’hui comme une charge.

Pourtant, dans 1 Timothée chapitre 5 verset 8 Paul dit clairement que "celui que ne prend pas soins de sa famille a renié la foi".

Or, de nos jours, plusieurs messages, même dans le mouvement pentecôtiste ne vont pas dans le sens de consolider la famille, mais plus tôt dans celui de la fragiliser.

Dans Romains 15: 1, la bible dit : « Que les forts soutiennent les faibles ». 

Dans ce verset Paul veut nous dire simplement que si nous soutenons les faibles, en réalité, nous nous soutenons aussi nous-mêmes car, en tant que famille, nous formons une sorte de chaîne. or, au sujet de la chaîne, il est dit que la force d'une chaîne est mesurée par rapport à la résistance de son maillon le plus faible. 

Si un maillon manque alors, il n’y a plus de chaîne. 

Pourquoi être sauvé par la foi chrétienne, si c'est dans le but de nous éloigner de notre famille ?

Bien aimés dans le seigneur, il est temps pour nous, en tant que chrétiens, de jouer en fin au sein de nos familles, le rôle qui ressemble à la foi, à laquelle nous disons que nous croyons.

Il est temps pour nous de devenir des rassembleurs, et des hommes oints, pour faire le bien.

Merci d'avoir pris le temps de lire cet article.

Nous comptons sur vous pour pouvoir appliquer les différents conseils qu'il contient, afin de pouvoir constater des changements dans votre vie avec les membres de votre famille biologique, professionnelle ou spirituelle.

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